Remembering Julie Moore, the civilian who helped change military protocol

Kisha Patterson recounts her last conversation with her husband, Army Staff Sergeant Esau Patterson, before he was killed by a car bomb in Iraq in 2004, leaving her without a chance to say goodbye. The article highlights the evolution of military casualty notifications, starting from impersonal telegrams during the Civil War to the current practice of in-person notifications, largely influenced by Army wife Julia Moore, who advocated for compassionate delivery of death messages. In 2023, the Pentagon honored both Julia and her husband by renaming Ft. Benning to Ft. Moore, recognizing their impact on military culture.