Parenting coach Gen Muir advises against using phrases like “gentle hands” or “we do not hit” when addressing a child’s hitting behavior, as it may shame or confuse them. Instead, she suggests calmly stating, “I won’t let you hit. I’m going to move us to keep us safe. You can be mad, but I won’t let you hit.” Many parents have found success with this approach, emphasizing the importance of teaching children how to manage their emotions without resorting to physical aggression.
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